Healing form Narcissistic Abuse

Sometimes, tarot can reveal certain matters to consciousness, that were only barely known before.

Losing self to a relationship with a narcissist is a dangerous pathway for the mind to travel. When traveling any spiritual path, one needs to be open to change. Embracing change and integrating it into your life is how the soul evolves.

Yet narcissism is not based on the evolution of the soul. It’s premise is the worship of one.  That’s it. Without worshipping this one person (hence the term narcissistic supply) one is useless to the narcissist.  How to heal from a narcissist?  Don’t give them anymore ‘narcissistic supply.’ Without this component to the relationship the narcissist is off for more fulfilment elsewhere.

Here are some ways to recognize a narcissist:

• Making unreasonable demands upon someone, and expecting them to happen!
• Instituting control mechanisms over time, persons spending time with, etc.
• pathologized and made submissive
• not allowed to be sick
• demonizing friends and/or family – isolating
• constantly chipping away at someone else’s self-esteem, to make themselves feel better
• gaslighting partners and best friends

Isn’t it great to know that everything the narcissist wants to control in you, they are allowed to do themselves – without QUESTION.

Obviously there is some familial dysfunction playing out for the narcissist in the world.  Once you learn to recognize the signs of narcissism it can be avoided in personal relationships, or exhumed from friendships, partnerships, etc.